Stop People Pleasing!

TODAY’S HOROSCOPE — DECEMBER 4th 2020
Later tonight, the Moon moves to turn up the heat in Leo. Before doing so, it takes it’s last lingering stare at Jupiter, Pluto and Saturn, in Capricorn. At 28 degrees in Cancer, it is pitted directly against Saturn, that holds the same position. Both of these planets are at home because they are in the sign they rule. This is coupled with the fact that they occupy opposing angular houses.
They provoke you to finally solve this dilemma:
Are you prepared to sacrifice a part of your personal identity, to have an emotionally secure relationship?
To help answer this you’ll have to rake over the coals to examine your level of emotional development. It may well reveal where you feel trapped, controlled blocked and defensive. If you feel burdened because of your people pleasing tendencies, it’s time to stop. The same applies where you are holding onto illusions that don’t match up to familial realities.
The Moon and Saturn are in action orientated signs that clash with each other. So, will you maintain the status quo of living a dutiful, yet emotionally arid life? Or, will you break this confining shell to live with more emotional flexibility and optimism?
If you choose the path of liberation then integrate the solid foundation that Saturn in Capricorn gives. If you opt to continue living in a retentive way, you’ll continue to shrink your life. The next time these planets will be opposing each other in the signs they rule, is from 2047. Bite the bullet now to save yourself decades wasted by clinging onto unfulfilling relationships.
Use the out of sign, grand trine between the Moon, Mercury and Chiron to heal your wounded identity. Speak about the new you, who is emerging.